When parents split, everyone starts talking about “50/50 custody” like it’s some kind of gold standard. It sounds fair—equal time, equal parenting, and no one gets the short end of the stick. But is it realistic? And more importantly… is it required?
Let’s clear up the confusion.
What Does 50/50 Custody Really Mean?
In Georgia, 50/50 custody usually refers to physical custody—how much time a child spends with each parent. It doesn’t mean both parents are automatically entitled to half the time. Courts look at a lot more than fairness.
In fact, the law doesn’t prefer any particular time split. The main priority is always the best interest of the child.
So if one parent travels constantly or works long overnight shifts, a 50/50 arrangement might actually disrupt the child’s routine and stability.
The Myth of “Fairness”
It’s easy to get caught up in what feels fair to the parents. But here’s the truth: the court cares less about equality between parents and more about what works for the child.
Does that mean 50/50 never happens? Not at all. Many families make it work—but it requires serious coordination, mutual respect, and proximity (think: same school district, same routines, same values on bedtimes and screen time).
And if you don’t get 50/50? That doesn’t mean you’re being punished. It could mean the court sees that your current situation doesn’t support it—for now.
Can You Still Co-Parent Without a 50/50 Schedule?
Absolutely. Plenty of parents share legal custody (decision-making power) while having a physical custody split that’s more like 60/40 or even 70/30. What matters most is consistency, communication, and showing up.
Want more time? Show that you’re available, involved, and prioritizing your child’s needs—not just your rights.
What If You Want 50/50?
If you’re aiming for a shared custody agreement, preparation is key:
- Have a proposed schedule ready.
- Show your involvement in school, healthcare, and daily routines.
- Live close enough to support easy transitions.
- Prove that you and your co-parent can cooperate.
Sometimes, the path to 50/50 isn’t through fighting—it’s through mediation and smart legal planning.
So, Do You Have to Do 50/50?
Short answer: No.
Better answer: Only if it’s right for your child.
At the end of the day, your custody arrangement should fit your child’s life—not just your calendar.
Want to Know What’s Best for Your Case?
You don’t have to guess your way through custody laws or fight for a setup that won’t work long-term. Let’s figure out what makes sense—for your life and your child’s future.
📞 Call Catherine Ryan today to start the conversation.