When Life Changes, Your Parenting Plan Might Need To
It’s one thing to co-parent in the same zip code—but what happens when your ex suddenly relocates across the state line (or across the country)? Whether it’s a job, a new relationship, or just a desire for a fresh start, a move can throw your existing custody agreement into chaos.
So, can you change the agreement? Short answer: Yes—but not automatically.
Let’s break down what matters and how to move fast.
Is Moving Out of State Enough to Justify a Custody Change?
Not every relocation triggers a custody modification, but a significant move absolutely can—especially if it affects parenting time, school schedules, or your ability to see your child regularly.
In Georgia, the best interest of the child always comes first. If your ex’s move makes that harder to uphold, the court may agree it’s time to revisit the plan.
What the Court Will Want to Know:
The judge will look at several key things before approving a change:
- How far is the move?
A move 3 hours away is different from a move across the country. - Is the child’s well-being affected?
This includes school disruption, emotional distress, or loss of contact with the other parent. - Can the current agreement still work?
If weekend visits now require plane tickets, probably not.
You Can Request a Modification—But Timing Is Key
If you believe your current arrangement no longer supports your child’s best interest, you can petition the court for a custody modification. This process typically involves:
- Filing a motion to modify custody
- Showing a material change in circumstances
- Proposing a new parenting plan
If your ex has already moved or is planning to move, that is a material change. But the sooner you act, the better chance you have of preserving your parental rights.
Does It Matter Who’s Moving?
Yes. If you’re the one moving, the court will look closely at why you’re relocating and how it will impact your child’s relationship with the other parent.
If your ex is moving, the burden is on you to show why the change negatively affects the child and why a new arrangement is necessary.
Can You Handle This Without Going to Court?
Sometimes. If both parents agree to modify the plan, you can file a consent order and avoid a drawn-out court process. But if your ex is unwilling or uncooperative, you’ll need to formally request a change.
Either way, a lawyer can help ensure you’re protecting both your rights—and your child’s future.
Bottom Line: Don’t Wait to Take Action
Out-of-state moves can cause a ripple effect in your custody agreement. If your ex is relocating—or already has—it’s time to ask:
“Is my current parenting plan still fair, workable, and in the best interest of my child?”
If the answer is no, it’s time to take the next step.
📞 Need Help Modifying Your Custody Agreement?
Call Catherine Verdery Ryan, Attorney at Law, to schedule a consultation today. We handle parenting plan modifications across Georgia with compassion, speed, and precision.