“You can be right—or you can be free.”
It’s a tough truth, but an empowering one—especially when you’re navigating the emotional minefield of divorce. Many people think winning a divorce means “getting everything.” In reality, the real win is walking away with your sanity, your finances intact, and your future unburdened. That’s what choosing peace over petty is all about.
Fighting Is Expensive—Literally
Dragging your ex through court just to “make a point”? That point will come with a price tag. Court battles over assets, custody, or spousal support can rack up tens of thousands in legal fees, not to mention lost time, emotional exhaustion, and stress on any children involved.
Choosing settlement through uncontested divorce or mediation can save you money and give you more control. You’re not giving up—you’re getting out smart.
Peace Doesn’t Mean You’re Being a Push-Over
Let’s be clear: choosing peace doesn’t mean letting the other person walk all over you. It means being strategic.
- You set clear boundaries
- You ask for what you need
- You protect your assets and your children
All while skipping the screaming matches and courtroom drama.
Petty Only Feels Good for a Moment
Sure, getting that last word or winning a small battle can feel like a victory. But that’s short-term thinking.
Long-term? You want a clean break, a peaceful home, and the ability to move on without dragging your past behind you.
What Choosing Peace Looks Like
- Having an attorney review your agreement so you don’t get taken advantage of
- Prioritizing your child’s needs over revenge
- Focusing on your next chapter, not the last one
- Walking away from drama instead of trying to win it
It’s not just a smarter way out—it’s a stronger one.
Don’t Let Petty Cost You Peace
If you’re ready to move forward without the drama, we’re here to help. At Catherine Verdery Ryan, Attorney at Law, we specialize in uncontested divorces, custody, and support cases that help you stay focused and protected.