Some words carry more weight than they deserve. “Failure” is one of them. It’s a word I hear whispered in consultations. Sometimes directly. More often between the lines. “I never thought I’d be here.” “I feel like I’ve...
Edward Bulwer-Lytton famously wrote, “The pen is mightier than the sword.” More than 180 years later, I’d argue it’s also mightier than the argument. Especially in divorce. Because once the conversations are over…Once the emotions...
People think divorce is one decision. It isn’t. It’s hundreds. Some are obvious. Should we sell the house? What happens with the retirement accounts? What’s the parenting schedule? Others are much smaller. When do I move? Who keeps the family photos?...
There is a season in almost every divorce that nobody talks about. It’s not the filing. It’s not the paperwork. It’s not even the divorce itself. It’s the waiting. The months—or sometimes years—spent knowing something needs to change but not...
⚖ THE MYTH “We could never have an uncontested divorce.” I hear some version of this all the time. Sometimes it’s: “We don’t agree on anything.” Other times it’s: “We can barely be in the same room together.” And...
