You’ve got a custody agreement. You’ve got a child support order. Things seemed settled—until the payments stopped coming. If this is happening to you, take a breath. You’re not alone, and you’re not powerless.
Life happens—job loss, relocation, or just plain irresponsibility—but your child’s needs don’t pause because someone stopped paying. So, what can you do? Let’s break it down.
First Things First: Don’t Wait Too Long
It’s easy to give someone the benefit of the doubt, especially when they say, “I’ll catch up next month.” But when support payments stop, time matters. In Georgia, child support is a court-ordered obligation. If your ex doesn’t pay, they’re violating a legal order—plain and simple.
Document Everything
Start keeping track of:
- Missed payment dates
- Partial payments
- Any messages or excuses given
You’ll want a clear timeline if legal action becomes necessary. This doesn’t mean war—it means protecting your child.
Reach Out (But Be Strategic)
If it feels safe to do so, a polite message asking about the payment can sometimes solve the issue. But avoid threats or emotional language. This isn’t about revenge—it’s about resolution.
If they’re unresponsive or dismissive? Time to take the next step.
You Can Enforce It—Here’s How
In Georgia, you can file a Motion for Contempt. This lets the court know that someone isn’t following an order, and they’ll be required to explain themselves. If the judge finds them in contempt, consequences may include:
- Wage garnishment
- Seizure of tax refunds
- Driver’s license suspension
- Jail time in extreme cases
You don’t have to do this alone. An attorney can guide you through the process so it doesn’t feel overwhelming.
What If They Lost Their Job?
If your ex legitimately lost income, they can ask the court to modify the order—but they can’t just stop paying without permission. Until a judge changes the order, the original amount is still due.
So, yes—it’s still enforceable.
This Isn’t Just About Money—It’s About Stability
Child support isn’t a favor. It’s a legal responsibility that helps keep your child fed, clothed, and secure. Missed payments affect more than your bank account—they disrupt your life and your child’s sense of safety.
You Deserve Support—So Does Your Child
If you’re dealing with missed child support payments, you don’t have to stay in limbo. Whether it’s a conversation, a legal filing, or a full enforcement action—we can help you figure out the best path forward.
Call to Action:
📞 If child support payments have stopped, don’t wait to get answers. Contact Catherine Verdery Ryan, Attorney at Law, today for a consultation.